We’ve probably all had relationships that slipped away because we couldn’t talk to each other or didn’t bother to try. In this chapter we will look at the mundane, yet remarkable, process of dyadic (one- on-one), Electronically Mediated Interpersonal Communication. We’ll take a topical approach to the subject of Electronically Mediated Interpersonal Communication, examining a broad array of topics studies done on the subject at hand. We will begin with an examination of cell phone usage processes and then spend time on the role of communication in the formation, maintenance, and dissolution of relationships of al types.
You will learn new terms and theories and how they can apply to your own relationships and communication abilities using Electronically Mediated Interpersonal Communication. Cell phones Cell phones are becoming an Integral part of our daily lives. It Is no surprise that a ground breaking study Just released says mobile technology has permanently changed the way we work, live, and love. Commissioned by Motorola, this new behavioral study took researchers to nine cities worldwide from New York to London. Sing a combination of personal interviews, field studies, and observation, the study identified a variety of behaviors that demonstrate the dramatic impact cell phones are having on the way people interact. The study found cell phones give people a newfound personal power, enabling unprecedented mobility and allowing them to conduct their business on the go. Interesting enough, gender differences can be found in phone use. Women see their cell phone as a means of expression and social communication, while males tend to use it as an interactive toy.
Some men view the cell phone as a status symbol – competing with other males for the most high tech toy and even using the cell phone o seduce the opposite sex. The study found two types of cell phone users- “Inline,” with the people around them. The report, titled On the Mobile, has labeled today’s teenagers “The Thumb Generation. ” Cell phones are often used by the younger generation to send text messages by typing with their thumbs on the phone’s keypad. Believe it or not, this has had a profound effect on the way teenagers use their thumbs.
Thumb dexterity has improved so much that some teenagers now point and even ring doorbells with their thumb instead of their forefinger. The use of these two-way text messaging vices has also resulted in “generation text,” a language of abbreviations that is understood by the young all over the world. Yet cell phones are not Just for the young. The cell phone has made long distance communications easy. GSM phones that place calls worldwide have turned the universe into a global village. They are helping people from all generations cross cultural and physical borders.
Mobile technology, specifically the use of cell phones, has become an internal part of today’s life all around the globe. Cell phones have become so second nature in our society that the daily answering of our cell phone when having a face to face interaction with a friend, spouse, or acquaintance becomes a first priority (Kelly calls me) and is no longer viewed as an interruption, but rather seen as a status symbol. This is also problematic because it has made our conversations become public for all to hear no longer having those intimate private talks, now anyone who is around you can listen in and become part of our conversations..
There currently over 170 million users in the United States and growing by 1 million every month. Cell Phone Usage In a June 2000 Cellular One survey of college students , the students reported the allowing as the most important reasons for purchasing a cell phone: – Emergencies (47%) – To contact significant others (44%) – To keep in touch with family members (58%) – To coordinate social activities (32%) In the same survey students reported that the reasons they actually used their cell phones were: – Emergencies (35. %) – Coordinate social activities (7. 0%) Juanita gives example of cell phone use. Participation Question: How do you react to someone using there cell phone in a public place? For instance when you are seating down in the theater getting ready to see the movie and someone’s cell phones goes off? What doe you do? What’s your reaction? Have them write down answer then share with class. E-mails Another form of Electronically Mediated Interpersonal Communication is the Internet. Electronic communication is usually transmitted via the internet.
Which is an international electronic computer network made up of smaller computer networks. The internet is an information management system made up of information providers and information seekers. This idea of linking computers came to fruition in the mid sass’s. In 1983 this network became known collectively as the internet. The World Wide Web is part of the internet where information is presented. Here are some terms that are associated with the internet. Go online to show examples. * Websites- are somewhat like pages in a book that include both pictures and text. Websites- Are a collection of websites belonging to the same organization or person. * Home page- Is the first page of a website. * Browser- Is a program that enables you to search millions of websites otherwise known as surfing the net. These programs include Netscape, Explore, Just to name a few. * Uniform resource locator or URL- The path name of a domain. Bookmark- Stores favorite sites that you would like to re-visit. * Search engines- Identifies websites and corresponding Rule’s like Google and yahoo.
Internet usage among Americans are as followed: Women use the internet 67% Men use the internet 69% more that women Now we will also break down internet usage by age: 18-29 30-49 50-64 65+ As you can see the usage is cut drastically as we move into the older generation. The older generations did not have the accessibility to these new electronic mediated forms of communication. Younger generations have practically been raised with hose devices in place and are part of their everyday lives.
Another part of being online is emails. This is a written form of communication sent via the internet. Email is the largest application of internet technology. In the early ass’s email was an option available mostly for interoffice communication. Only a small number of people were experimenting with emails as a general means to communication. Today of the 75% of teens online, email accounts for most of their one on one contacts. Email has two major advantages: one its fast and two its unlimited.
My dog is sick, I’m behind on homework, and I haven’t been myself lately”, you must ignore that person, but provide some sort of support. Responding with “Man, that sucks” is NOT a good way to comfort someone. However, responding with, “Wow, I’m so sorry. I really hope your dog is okay, and if you need any help with getting organized, let me know what I can do. I’m here for you, and you can call me if you ever need to Just vent” is a better way of showing the person that o care about them and their current situation.
Participation question: How often do you use your email account on a weekly basis? Write down answer and then share with class. Other interactions that can take place using the internet is newsgroups and chat rooms. Everyday millions of people chat online with friends, colleagues and strangers. Teens use this form of interaction the most amount of time. Many teens engage in internet chat because they can be themselves more oppose to face to face interactions. This is due to them not being afraid of how people will Judge them.
One unique harmonistic of being online is that your real identity is usually kept secret. Most people adopt a cyber identity or persona. In this make believe world you can become anything or anyone you want. This can be somewhat problematic because so can Here are a few definitions on the topic: Newsgroups- Is an electronic gathering place for people with similar interests. (Online example) Chat- Is an online interactive exchange between two or more people. (Online example) Lurking- Listening in on newsgroups or chat conversations. Online example) Flaming- A hostile or negative respond to what you’ve written. (Online example) Participation question: Does anyone belong to a Newsgroup or likes to chat online? How often? Thomas gives example about chat rooms. Thanks to advances in technology, people are introduced to others they have never seen through chat rooms and internet dating services. These people mostly meet in a room where they talk about a certain subject. The people who meet online are likely to try and develop these Electronically Mediated relationships (or ME relationship) into a personal relationship.
They will meet in a chat room, and if an interest in someone sparks the desire to “meet” in a private chat room, they may do o. From here, people are able to communicate one-on-one and may then find out they have more than one thing in common. If the interest continues to grow, they may talk over the phone, and eventually meet in person. The result could be Just a friendship, or an intimate relationship. Statistics show that 23. 7% of the people in a study of a certain newsgroup or coatroom communicated with their partner 3-4 times a week, and 55. 4% communicated at least on a weekly basis.
These ME relationships are attractive to some people with busy lifestyles who claim they have no time to “do the bar scene”. Other people who have a face-to-face relationships use EMCEE to sustain that relationship. E-mail was originally designed as a tool for conducting business, but is now used widely by friends, family, and lovers to maintain close connection that might be difficult to sustain when there is a lack of time, or there is great distance between the two parties. Instant Messaging is one of the most widely used tools for sustaining or developing relationships.
My brother lives with me, yet when we are at home, we get the most is not to say our relationship wouldn’t last if we didn’t communicate via the internet, UT it is a good way to catch up on each others’ lives while still working on what needs to get done like homework, and obviously communicating with others as well. EMCEE is less fruitful than face to face communication, because text messages are primarily verbal. We have talked about the loss or lack of intimacy in EMCEE, and this is mostly because the way we say our words means more than Just what is said. Ms. Mallard used the example of “l Love You” in class.
Typing “l love you”, while getting the message across, does not necessarily reflect the emotion and intent behind those three words. We refer to our ME encounters as “talking to people”, but the words we write seldom carry out as much meaning as we think. Only with videoconferencing is the full range of nonverbal messages available. After all, communication is at its most effective when there are verbal AND nonverbal messages being carried out EMCEE, conducted via keyboard entries, is slower paced than face-to-face conversations. We think faster than we can type (unless you’re Super-secretary).
Although this slower rate may provide a person more time for thought, this slower transmission reduces the spontaneity that is an important harmonistic of face-to-face interaction. ME communicators are perceived to be less supportive. As stated before, short messages may be interpreted many different ways, and are more often seen as very impersonal. In face-to-face communication, anywhere from 33% to 100% of the meaning depends on how the message was stated. Many people are attracted to EMCEE as a means of developing or maintaining relationships if they have had difficulty cultivating strong interpersonal relationships in person.
Because EMCEE is planned, some people are able to show verbal skillfulness and humor in their writing, but lack those skills in face to face settings. Some individuals report that ME relationships are more satisfying than face-to-face relationships. Now is this because we have advanced so far in the technological field that more and more people are online, thus providing us with a greater range of people to meet, or is this because people are losing the ability to “hold their own” in a face-to-face encounter.
Americans used to go to clubs or bars to meet people, but are now staying home on Friday nights to talk to their online partner because they are more comfortable suppressing their need for group interaction in a less threatening atmosphere. Think about it, it is easier to elk to someone you are interested in online because the things you would have trouble saying in person simply roll right off your fingertips when using the internet. The awkwardness in a first conversation is virtually develop faster this way.
Role of Electronic Communication in Building Relationships Today communication technologies are changing the way we building and maintaining relationships. Prior to 1990, people became more acquainted mostly with those with whom they had personal physical contact. At the same time, dating services advertised that they can get people in the same community acquainted with ACH other within a week. Today, people are able to make acquaintances with people around the world within seconds. From Online to In-person Relationships In face to face relationships, trust is built over time.
In ME relationships, making a trust evaluation is more difficult. Some of the media through which relationships are developed are very “opaque. ” Kelly gives example about Justine (trust factor). The dark side of Electronically Mediated Communication There are three main problems with EMCEE ME communication to form relationship and acquire information has a number of risks and abuse. Abuse of Anonymity) Write on board—- One type of abuse in Internet- based relationships stems from the common practice of assuming a fictitious online persona. Dishonesty) Write on board—–A second risk in cyber relationships lies in the ease with which one can be deceived. In cyberspace, people commonly lie about their sex and physical attributes, and create fictitious careers, homes, and so forth. Unfortunately, some people use cyberspace to prey on others. When we develop in-person relationships, we usually have independent ways of confirming that the people are what they are representing themselves to be. Because we don’t know our ME partners in person we are severely limited in our abilities to independently confirm what we are told.
Abuse of anonymity and dishonesty are of special concern for ME relationships formed by children. In 1998, seventeen million children ages two to eighteen were online. That number is expected to grow even higher. This is of some concern as well due to the growing numbers of Addiction. (Addiction) Write on board—– A third potential problem for children and adults alike is technological addictions, defined as non chemical (behavioral) addictions that involves human machine interaction.
People who are addicted spend inordinate amounts of time online and begin to prefer their cyber relationships to their real ones. Closer, meaning we literally have the world at our fingertips. We can communicate with someone in Ireland at the press of a button. The effectiveness of Electronically Mediated Communication as it relates to inter-personal communication lies solely in how we choose to use it. EMCEE, if used incorrectly can drastically deteriorate the level of human intimacy and can take away the private aspect of communication with loved ones and has in turn made it into a public affair.